In high school dating I think age matters because people aren't fully mature so a couple years difference can be a very huge difference. But when you're an adult like a couple years difference isn't a big deal at all. I think it's all up to the maturity level of the people. It's weird and I think illegal for a 19yr old and a 14 yr old to date. I think after high school people are still very immature but it's better than them being in high school. -Xena g