I believe actions speak louder then words. To me saying your going to do something and then doings something are two completely different things. when someone tells me that they are going to do something nice, to me it has come to the point that I have to see it to believe it. For instance, I don't like when people say sorry, it means they will not do it again because if you were, you would not be apologizing to me. so instead of saying sorry show me because that's the only way I'm going to believe you.